Want to grow faster? Get access to opportunities? You need connections. But DMing top voices can feel intimidating—unless you follow this proven approach:
1. Be Human, Not Salesy
Start with appreciation. Mention a post, interview, or product of theirs you actually liked.
2. Keep It Short
People don’t have time for paragraphs. Keep it to 3–4 lines max.
3. Ask for Micro-Advice
Instead of “Can I pick your brain?”, ask:
“Hey [Name], loved your take on [Topic]. I’m working on [X]—any advice for [Y]?”
4. Provide Value Back
Offer to help in return. Even if it’s small—like resharing their post or designing a free resource.
5. Follow Up (Once)
If no reply in 7 days, follow up politely. No hard feelings if they don’t respond.
Networking isn’t about getting favors—it’s about creating mutual wins.
